How to Use the No Matter Where Bondage Restraint System
By Sportsheets | Published: 2026-11-03
Category: How-to Guides
Learn how to set up the No Matter Where Bondage Restraint System on a bed, door, or furniture with adjustable straps and cuffs. Step-by-step guidance and safety checkpoints.
Quick answer
The No Matter Where Bondage Restraint System works by threading its two adjustable straps under a mattress, around furniture, or through a door, then connecting the four cuffs with the six D-ring connectors. Set it up with a clear anchor point and a safety check before play.
Why the anchor point matters more than the straps
The system’s versatility comes from its nearly 10 feet of adjustable strapping, but the anchor point determines how secure and comfortable the play will be. A mattress works well because body weight holds the straps in place; a door or piece of furniture needs a stable, non-slip surface and enough clearance for the cuffs to move without pulling furniture over.
Check that the anchor can handle pulling force without tipping, sliding, or damaging the surface. Avoid sharp edges, loose door handles, and lightweight furniture that could shift during use.
When the system is not the right fit
This restraint system is designed for portability and adaptable anchoring, not for fixed-point suspension or full-body immobilization. If you need a permanent under-bed setup with a single anchor point, a dedicated bed restraint system may be simpler. If you want standing bondage, the door anchor is an option, but it requires a solid door and careful positioning to avoid pressure on the wrists or ankles.
The cuffs fit up to 15.5 inches, so check wrist and ankle circumference before play. The straps adjust from 5 to 15 inches, which limits how far apart the anchor points can be; measure your intended anchor before setup.
Step-by-step setup
- Choose and test the anchor: Decide whether you will anchor under a mattress, around furniture, or through a door. Test the anchor by pulling firmly on the strap path to ensure it will not slip, tip, or damage the surface. If the anchor moves or feels unstable, choose a different anchor before continuing.
- Thread the straps: Run the two adjustable straps under the mattress or around the furniture/door according to the anchor you chose. Keep the straps flat and free of twists so they lie comfortably and adjust smoothly. Twisted straps can create pressure points and make length adjustment harder.
- Adjust strap length: Set each strap between 5 and 15 inches as needed for your anchor. Leave enough slack to connect the cuffs without pulling the anchor tight against the body. Check that both straps are adjusted to similar lengths if you want symmetrical positioning.
- Attach the cuffs: Use the six D-ring connectors to attach the four cuffs to the straps. Position each cuff where you want the limb to rest, and fasten it so it is snug but not tight. You should be able to slide one finger under each cuff; if not, loosen it.
- Do a comfort and safety check: Before play, have your partner test the range of motion and confirm that no cuff or strap presses on nerves or restricts breathing. Keep safety scissors within reach and agree on a safe word. If anything feels numb, tingly, or painful, stop and readjust immediately.
Product facts
- No Matter Where Bondage Restraint System: Nearly 10 feet of adjustable strapping with two straps adjustable from 5 to 15 inches. This range lets you anchor to a mattress, furniture, or door, but you should measure the span first to confirm the straps reach comfortably.
No Matter Where Bondage Restraint System - No Matter Where Bondage Restraint System: Four included cuffs fit up to 15.5 inches, with six D-ring connectors. The cuff size and connector count give you multiple attachment points, so you can position limbs without over-tightening.
